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Leadership Attributes: Leaders are Readers

In our series on leadership attributes, we have previously looked at how leaders are learners. They demonstrate continuous and lifelong learning. A subset of continuous learning is reading. Leaders are readers.

In his book The Conviction to Lead: 25 Principles for Leadership that Matters, Albert Mohler writes that there is no substitute for effective reading when it comes to developing and maintaining the intelligence necessary to lead. Where I worked my entire career, continuous learning was emphasized – be it an insurance certification or an IT designation. Reading is always an important part of learning.

Even though I am now retired, I am still an avid reader. Actually, since I am retired, I have more time than ever to read. And as I read as a leader, I read primarily in four categories: Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Leaders Leave a Positive Legacy

In our series on leadership attributes, we now look at the legacy that a leader leaves. I’ve previously written an article titled What Will Your Legacy Be? This article will focus specifically on the legacy that we leave as leaders.
In the Law of Legacy from John Maxwell’s classic book The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, Maxwell writes:
“Every person leaves some kind of legacy. For some it’s positive. For others it’s negative. But here’s what I know: we have a choice about what legacy we will leave, and we must work and be intentional to leave the legacy we want.” Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Influence

In our series on leadership attributes, we now look at influence. John Maxwell often says that leadership is influence, nothing more and nothing less. Do you agree with this? I recall one of my leaders years ago disagreeing with this statement after I had shared it in a meeting. But saying that leadership is influence does seem to make sense.
To begin with, let’s define influence. A dictionary definition of influence that I read was:

The power or capacity of causing an effect in indirect or intangible way. Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Developing Others

Helping others to develop to their fullest potential is my favorite aspect of leadership. I always enjoyed working with team members and mentees, and still enjoy the mentoring or discipling relationships that I am a part of. There is something about working with individuals who want to grow, improve, and reach their highest potential that energizes me. It’s a joy to see someone achieve their goals, which is oftentimes securing their first formal leadership position.
Pouring yourself into others was modeled for me early by my career mentor, Mel. I saw the joy he took when one of his staff members developed and moved on to higher levels of responsibility. He wasn’t interested in keeping them on his staff, which would have been comfortable for him in the short-term, but instead “pushed them out of the nest”. They knew he would always be available for mentoring later as needed.

I’ve never turned down anyone wanting to enter into a mentoring or discipling relationship with me, feeling it is what I should be doing as a leader. In addition, even though I’m the mentor, I always learn a lot from these relationships. John Maxwell has written that as a leader, you will never regret the time you invest in people, as raising up others is one of the greatest joys a leader can have. He goes on to say that it is essential to focus on raising others to a higher level.
It is important for mentor leaders to know how they can help others to develop. If it is a current team member, for example, the leader should have a good idea on what is needed as far as development and growth. If it is a mentoring relationship with someone outside of your team, the prospective mentee will need to express those areas that they need help with, to see if is something that the leader can actually help with. For example, if someone approached me to help them to grow in their technical skills, I would tell them that I would not be the best one to help them, and instead refer them to someone better suited to equip them. Also, it’s important to remember that the mentee has to drive the relationship. This helps to make them accountable for showing up to the meetings and doing the necessary pre-work.
Many of my mentoring relationships included reading and discussing a book such as Maxwell’s The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership. Although the content of the book is important, I always found that the discussion around what we read was even more important. Its best to use a book that has questions for reflection and discussion, if possible.
Where I worked, we would at times provide high performing employees development opportunities in which they led a team for 12-18 months. It’s very important to take full advantage of such opportunities. I remember hearing from one of my leaders about an individual who they felt had done the best job of taking advantage of the opportunity given them. That individual has since gone on to have a good career in leadership and has even higher potential.
Another development suggestion is to give employees “stretch” assignments. A “stretch” assignment is outside/above their current level of responsibilities, and one in which success is not guaranteed. An example of such an assignment would be to lead a strategic effort.
Lastly, when helping others to develop, it’s important to help them to get into their “strengths zone”. As I referenced above, leading a highly technical team would not have been a good use of my skills, and would not have served that team well. Maxwell states that good leaders help others find their strength zones and empower them to work in them.
These are just a few of my thoughts about developing others. Entire books have been written on the subject. What would you add to what I have written?


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Leadership Attributes: Leaders are Appreciative

As we continue our series on leadership attributes, we now turn to appreciation. Several years ago, I asked a group of leaders and co-workers in the organization I worked what attributes of a leader were important to them. I received a wide variety of responses. One of the attributes that was mentioned was appreciative. To be a leader others want to follow you need to be appreciative.
In my experience, most employees in whatever area – business, church, non-profit, etc. – work hard and want to do a good job. They take pride in their work. At the same time, they want to feel appreciated. They want to know that their leader notices the work they do. Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Leaders Add Value

John Maxwell is well known for stating that he wants to “add value” to those he leads and mentors. Maxwell’s “Law of Addition”, from his classic book The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, states that leaders add value by serving others. That law, which is what I believe servant leadership is all about, is my favorite law from what is one of my favorite leadership books. Leaders are there to serve their followers, not the other way around. Maxwell tells us that when you serve others, their success becomes your success.  But what does it actually mean to “add value” to others?   Continue reading


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Learning Leadership Lessons

I was recently reminded how important it is to learn lessons from our leaders. That got me to thinking that there are a number of ways in which we can learn leadership lessons. For example, I learned a strong work ethic from my parents. They were both very hard workers, modeling that daily for my brother, sister and I. More recently, I learned lessons in courage from my brother, who nearly lost his life battling COVID, spending 53 days in the hospital. In fact, he was told just before he was placed on a ventilator that he probably wouldn’t make it. Who have you learned from, and what have been some of your best lessons learned? Continue reading


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Are You Working in Your “Strength Zone”?

I re-read John Maxwell’s 2008 book Leadership Gold: Lessons I’ve Learned from a Lifetime of Leading. You can read my review of the book here. One of my favorite chapters in the book is “Get in the Zone and Stay There”. The chapter is about working in your “strength zone”. Maxwell writes that the more you work in this zone, the more successful you will be.
I was introduced to the idea of discovering and working in your strength zone through the work of Marcus Buckingham. Primarily through the use of his 2007 book Go Put Your Strengths to Work: 6 Powerful Steps to Achieve Outstanding Performance, I was able to see the difference (of team members and myself), that working in your strength zone can make. People are energized, highly engaged in their work, and look forward to coming to work each day if they are doing work in their strength zone. I appreciate that Maxwell states that good leaders help others find their strength zones and empower them to work in them. Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Vision


In our series looking at leadership attributes, we now look at vision. Why do people follow a leader? Most likely it is because that leader has cast a compelling vision for making things better for them personally, and possibly also for the common good. A good leader convinces people that they will be able to bring the vision to fruition, and have successfully influenced others to follow them.

Leadership is about moving an organization (church, business, country, etc.) forward, improving them, and making things better. Harry Reeder in his book 3D Leadership: Defining, Developing and Deploying Christian Leaders Who Can Change the World, defines leadership as a leader influencing others to effectively achieve a defined mission together. John Maxwell famously goes even further and states that “Leadership is influence, nothing more and nothing less”. The way to influence others to follow you to is develop and communicate (or cast) a compelling vision. Continue reading


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Leadership Attributes: Leading by Example


In our series on leadership attributes, we now look at leading by example. We might call a leader that consistently demonstrates this attribute a role model. They are the type of leaders that are worth following. These are the leaders that you want to work for and learn from. You would actively try to join their team if the opportunity arose. John Maxwell has said that these leaders know the way, go the way and show the way. I like how Dee Ann Turner describes this type of leader in her book Bet on Talent:
“When I was selecting (Chick fil-A franchisees, at the end of every interview, I always asked myself a question taught to me by a former boss: ‘Would I want my three children to work for this person?’ It’s a simple question that sums up my decision.” Continue reading