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The Value of Encouragement

I was recently attending a breakout session at the 2025 Gospel Coalition National Conference and the speaker brought up the value of encouraging a young pastor. That got me to thinking about the idea of encouragement. What are some situations in which you can offer encouragement to someone? Here are a few possibilities:

  • To a co-worker struggling with the demands of the job
  • To an exhausted young mom
  • To someone dealing with aging
  • To a friend who longs to move into a leadership position
  • To a friend who is facing financial pressures
  • To your pastor who is facing burnout
  • To your spouse on just an ordinary day
  • To a friend who has just received a devastating medical diagnosis
  • To a student struggling with a class
  • To friends who long to have a child but have not to date

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The Best of Times; the Worst of Times…. A Caregiver’s Story PART I

Our friend Don Lusk recently spoke at the Pray for the Cure Event on Sept. 6, 2018 in Bloomington, Illinois.  We thought his essay would encourage those battling difficult seasons of life and those caregivers that are walking by their sides.

Bill & Tammy Pence and Don & Angela Lusk enjoying the Ligonier Conference

The Best of Times; the Worst of times…. A Caregiver’s Story by Don Lusk  

English writer & social critic, Charles Dickens’s famous novel, “A Tale of Two Cities” is set in London and Paris before and during the French Revolution. The story is set against the conditions that led up to the French Revolution and the Reign of Terror.  The novel’s opening statements set the stage:

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all going direct the other way—”

The opening chapters introduction summarizes my life over the past 25 years as the husband of my darling, Angela.  The best of times…. Yet, the worst of times as a caregiver.  Continue reading


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Encouragement in the Midst of Loss

Lately, I’ve become aware of a number of losses in my life. Perhaps this describes you in this season as well. This is not to be unexpected in a post-Genesis 3 fallen world. Still, there are many losses that I am aware of in recent days, including:

  • The news that a dear friend, who has bravely battled cancer for years, has gone into hospice care.
  • Saying good bye to dear friends from church as they move to Tennessee.
  • Saying good bye to two team members that, even though I had only worked with them for about four months, I very much enjoyed getting to know them and they will be missed.
  • Hearing that a dear woman from church has had a recurrence of cancer after more than twenty years.
  • Walking with dear friends from church as one of them walks the path of Alzheimer’s disease.
  • The upcoming one year anniversary of my father-in-law’s home-going.
  • Meeting a new team member who is walking with a brother battling cancer.
  • Hearing of a close relative’s loss of their dog that was dear to them.
  • Good friends who experienced three deaths in ten days, including two parents.

I hate cancer. I hate death. I hate good-byes.

And yet for the believer, we know that this life is as bad as it will get. We have much to look forward to. We have hope. Hope of no more cancer. Hope of no more tears. Hope of reuniting, with not only friends who have moved away, but of loved ones who have died. No more waiting on medical tests to find out if the cancer has spread. No more suffering.

John in Revelation 21:4 tells us:
He will wipe away every tear from their (yes our!) eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.      

But until Heaven, how are we to persevere in this fallen and broken world, when life is so hard and there is so much loss all around us? Consider some of this encouragement from Scripture:

  • For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.  Romans 8:18
  • Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope. Romans 5:3-4
  • Let not your hearts be troubled. Believe in God; believe also in me. John 14:1
  • Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.  Isaiah 41:10
  • Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.  Psalm 23:4
  • But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.  1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
  • Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.  John 14:27
  • Casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you.  1 Peter 5:7
  • “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”  2 Corinthians 4:16-18.

And of course there are so many more passages from Scripture that provide us comfort and encouragement in the midst of loss. What other verses or passages from the Bible have provided you comfort in the midst of loss?

There are signs of new life as the Midwest embraces spring. As I write this, farmers are in their fields preparing their land for planting. Soon, there will be small little corn and bean plants in perfectly shaped rows emerging in our rich black soil. The redbuds and crabapple trees today are just stunning. There are new buds on our maple tree and fresh green growth on our evergreens around our patio. God is faithful. He will be with you, in the good times and bad.


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God Moves in Mysterious Ways

God moves in mysterious waysWilliam Cowper struggled mightily with depression, which led to several suicide attempts. However, he has left us with some wonderful hymns. One that is often quoted in books I read is “God Works in Mysterious Ways”, and this verse:

Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
But trust Him for His grace;
Behind a frowning providence
He hides a smiling face.

Tim Challies writes of the hymn that it is a combination of assertions about God’s goodness, sovereignty and wisdom along with commands to take courage and trust in him. Cowper’s use of the metaphors of storms, mines, smiles, and flowers illustrate this meaning in a timeless way. The hymn is a beautiful expression of the kind of faith that sustained Cowper through long periods of darkness and despair.”

I thought of this hymn recently after a visit with some dear friends from church, whom we had gone to visit to encourage. She has been battling stage 4 colon cancer for almost three years, longer now than the prognosis for life she had been given by the doctors. And about the time she was diagnosed with cancer, he had a heart attack and resulting surgery. I tell you that we had gone to encourage them, but if truth be told, it was them that encouraged us, through their courage, faith, trust in God’s sovereignty and goodness.

This has happened before. Many years ago as Hospice volunteers, we would go to a local hospital once a week to serve the patients in Hospice care and their families. Inevitably, we would be surprised at how we were encouraged, especially by the family members as they sat with their loved ones during the last weeks of their lives. Yes, God does work in mysterious ways.

Recently, as we visited with our friends we heard stories of God’s bountiful provision. We heard of the love and generosity of her sister, who has provided a place for them to live, and of a gracious gift from the OSF Sisters of Charity who covered their medical expenses for a year when they didn’t have insurance, because he couldn’t work after his heart attack and surgery.

He talked about how much Psalm 118 meant to him at this time. In God’s providence, as I am reading through the Scriptures, that was my text for the following morning. Verse one reads:

Oh give thanks to the LORD, for he is good;
For his steadfast love endures forever! 

Our friends are hopeful, but realistic. They seemed at peace, even though she fears the pain that she worries will come toward the end.   They pray the prayer that never fails – Thy will be done.

I was particularly impressed with the trust and peace that they communicated to us, and also the concern they have for others. For example, he regularly sends texts of encouragement to another dear friend in our church whose wife is dealing with cancer. This reminds me of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

As I walked away from their front door I was hit by how God does work in mysterious ways. Here, I had come to encourage them, and their strong faith in the Lord encouraged me. He had done it again.