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Christmas Traditions


Billy at ChristmasI love the holiday season and especially Christmas, when we get to celebrate the birth of our Savior and spend time with family and friends. When I was young, it was all about the presents I would receive at Christmas. But as I’ve gotten older the emphasis has shifted. I now get much more joy from the gifts we give than the ones I receive. Even more so, it’s about spending time with family members, some of whom have now moved away and we don’t get to see very often.

Our family has many Christmas traditions. When my Mom was alive we always celebrated on Christmas Eve at my parent’s house, the house I grew up in. Although this will be our 20th Christmas without Mom since she passed away in 1996, I remember like it was yesterday walking up to their front door on a cold evening, the front windows steamed up due to the cold temperatures outside and the fragrance of the prime rib meal being cooked inside.

My Dad may be in the Guinness Book of World Records for most Christmas packages wrapped! Each year, the gifts that he wrapped would be stacked high on the beds in the room at the back of the house that my brother and I had shared when we were young. We would head back there and just be amazed at the number of gifts he had wrapped.

Here are a few of our current Christmas traditions:

Christmas Program at Church. My wife Tammy loves to sing in our church choir and we have a wonderful program each year. Since Christmas Eve is also when my Dad’s wife has traditionally celebrated with her family, we now rotate celebrating on Christmas Eve. On the off year, Tammy gets to participate in the Christmas program at church, which is a wonderful experience for all.

Christmas Lights. We love to drive around our community and look at the beautiful Christmas lights that people have put up. Our local newspaper lists the homes with the best decorations in the community and we make sure to check those out.

Fraser Fir Christmas Tree. Many people these days put Casey's at Christmasup artificial Christmas trees, rather than live ones. They are less messy and probably a better overall investment than buying a fresh one each year. But we still get a live Fraser Fir from our friends at Casey’s Garden Shop here in town. We love the great “Christmas tree” smell that you get from a Fraser Fir. One of our favorite traditions is to pick out our tree at Casey’s over the Thanksgiving weekend so that we can put it up and enjoy it until Christmas.

_Andy_Williams_Christmas_Album_coverChristmas music. I’ve loved Christmas music since my Mom would put on the 1963 classic Andy Williams Christmas Album as we went to sleep as kids. Each year, I listen to almost nothing but Christmas music between Thanksgiving and Christmas (and sometimes start even before Thanksgiving). We have a large Christmas music collection, and add to it each year, including new releases from Chris Tomlin and Keith and Kristyn Getty this year. Some of my favorite Christmas albums are by Andy Williams, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bing Crosby, Michael McDonald, Nat King Cole, James Taylor, Russ Taff, Michael W. Smith, Elvis Presley, Steven Curtis Chapman, A Charlie Brown Christmas by Vince Guaraldi, Tony Bennet, Bruce Cockburn, Chris Tomlin, Keith and Kristyn Getty and Perry Como.

Time with Family. As I mentioned, my family’s tradition was to gather on Christmas Eve to exchange gifts and have a prime rib dinner. Tammy’s family’s tradition is to gather on Christmas morning to exchange gifts and have a delicious brunch of country ham and biscuits & gravy. Some family members, particularly my Mom, are no longer with us. I treasure the time we have with family, especially as I mentioned above that many have moved away and we only get to see them a few times each year.

These are just a few of the Christmas traditions that our family enjoys. How about you? What are some of your favorite Christmas traditions?

Author: Bill Pence

I’m Bill Pence – married to my best friend Tammy, a graduate of Covenant Seminary, St. Louis Cardinals fan, formerly a manager at a Fortune 50 organization, and in leadership at my local church. I am a life-long learner and have a passion to help people develop, and to use their strengths to their fullest potential. I am an INTJ on Myers-Briggs, 3 on the Enneagram, my top five Strengthsfinder themes are: Belief, Responsibility, Learner, Harmony, and Achiever, and my two StandOut strength roles are Creator and Equalizer. My favorite book is the Bible, with Romans my favorite book of the Bible, and Colossians 3:23 and 2 Corinthians 5:21 being my favorite verses. Some of my other favorite books are The Holiness of God and Chosen by God by R.C. Sproul, and Don’t Waste Your Life by John Piper. I enjoy music in a variety of genres, including modern hymns, Christian hip-hop and classic rock. My book Called to Lead: Living and Leading for Jesus in the Workplace and Tammy’s book Study, Savor and Share Scripture: Becoming What We Behold are available in paperback and Kindle editions on Amazon.

9 thoughts on “Christmas Traditions

  1. You were a typical little boy, Bill. Respect and appreciate your enjoyment of traditional activities at Christmas. We all miss the ones who have gone on to their Heavenly home, but we know they are in a much better place. Being with the one we are celebrating. Your contributions to the celebrations are greatly appreciated. Yes, I am prejudiced since I Am Tam’s Mom, it’s allowed. Merry Christmas to all and God’s blessings to all in the New Year

  2. At Christmas as a child, I always looked forward to my stocking! It was amazing to see what my Mother could think of to put in them. It was something that I tried to continue to do for my children and some of them are continuing it with theirs.

    Since both sets of grandparents lived close by we would have TWO Christmas meals and get to see most of our cousins on both sides.

    Now one of my favorite memories is the Christmas Eve service. Then I have to chose which family I will “wake up” with on Christmas morning. Lots of times for making more memories!

    Thanks for prompting me to “remember” these things.

  3. Loved reading about your Christmas traditions. I grew up listening to Christmas music by Andy Williams, Perry Como, Mitch Miller, and Bing Crosby. Hearing them sing the songs of Christmas takes me right back to my childhood. I also love singing Christmas hymns with our church choir and participating in the annual Christmas Eve service.

    • Dianne, thanks for sharing your traditions and memories. I agree about what you say about the music. I love current music, but there is something about the music of our childhoods that takes us back to some wonderful memories. Blessings!

  4. Really enjoyed reading this, Bill, and I have known you forever!

  5. Thank you for sharing memories that are near and dear to my heart as well. Love ya big brother and amazing sister-in-law Tam. Family is simply precious and each day is truly a gift from God 💕

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  7. Probably our biggest “tradition” is that my oldest son’s birthday falls on December 24, so for us, that date is not “Christmas Eve” until we go to church in the evening. The entire rest of the day (morning and afternoon) we celebrate as his birthday.

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